This week a new prenatal test came out in the States called Materni21...It is a test that can tell a Mother as early as about 10 weeks into her pregnancy if she is carrying a child with Down syndrome.
I am not even going to bother sugar coating this...In MY opinion this test is not about informing parents about any abnormalities in their baby so they can "prepare" themselves...This test in MY opinion is simply to weed out all children like mine. To get rid of and do away with children like Russell altogether.
"Because they have no worth. Because they are suffering. Because they are a burden.
Because they have no value."
I am so angry.
I am so incredibly sad that this is what the world has come to.
That society now chooses who deserves to live and who deserves to die...And based on what??
Because some one is different their lives are less valuable?
Because my son takes a little longer to learn things...Because he may walk a little different or talk a little different...Because he may not grow up to be a Doctor or Lawyer...His life is not as worth as much as anothers?
My son has WORTH. My son is NOT suffering. My son is NOT a burden.
My son has VALUE.
The truth is this new test is not a medical break through in my opinion...All it is is a new test that will lead us down a very dangerous path...Because once you start deciding who has worth and who does not...Where does it end?? Who goes next??
I'm pretty sure this is exactly what Hitlers plan was, right? To have a "perfect" society.
Let's be honest. When a woman takes this test and it perhaps comes back positive for Down syndrome not many Doctors are going to deliver the good news about having a baby with Ds...They are not going to tell this Mother her child will be a blessing and will lead a productive life.
Let's face it...Doctors know the medical side of Down syndrome, but how many of them know the real life stuff? How many have actually interacted with people with Ds besides a simple Doctors visit?
Not many.
Most Mothers will likely be very uninformed on what exactly Down syndrome is...And sadly she will base her decision on misconceptions and old stereotypes...And fear.
While reading about this new test I scrolled down and read some of the comments left by others...I knew I shouldn't...I knew I was going to be hurt hearing what people had to say.
Here are just a few...
Now for all the Mothers out there who do not have a child with Down syndrome...Picture for a moment people saying these things about YOUR child. Picture that this is a test to eliminate people like YOUR son or daughter. Picture that this is a society where a great many feel this way about YOUR baby.
It hurts.
*phew. now women can get an abortion to not go through with having a child like this. this is such relief. then only the right wingers will have the ill formed children.*
*It's about time! Life is hard enough even for those born perfectly healthy. I cannot for the life of me understand why ANY parent would want to knowingly bring a child afflicted with Down Syndrome into this harsh world. Seems to me the height of selfishness. Who will look after them
when you're gone? Their siblings? Society? How fair is that??
For the record I was born with a supposedly minor birth defect (club feet). Even though I had surgery to correct it, it caused my parents great grief and hardship, and adversely affected my life in so many ways. If there had been a test to detect it, my mother would have been well advised to abort me. I certainly would have aborted any fetus withat or any other congenital defect.*
*This is a good thing, it is not fair to the child to live with this.*
And I could go on and on about this topic and how I feel...But whats the point?
All I am going to say is this...
Thank you God for sending this little boy to our family.
Because we love him...Because we cherish him. Because we see his worth. Because we will protect him and keep him safe. Because we will make sure he is surrounded by love. Because we will let his life be nothing but happy and fulfilling.
Thank you for choosing us.
And this poster I love...
And this poster I love...

Wow, those comments. Aborting over clubbed feet? What on earth. This test is Hitlerish, or Spartanistic. Denmark has already proclaimed it will be down syndrome free because of this test. See I see it as incredabily selfish TO abort. Because YOUR life gets harder with this diagnosis. And yes, I expect my kids, my family, the government to help with fiona if I can't, because a, that's what family does and that is why I pay taxes, and b, because people shouldn't be so selfish. These are lives we are talking about. Once again I am screaming at a wall because most people will never understand, never change their views. Abortion rates will rise with this test.
ReplyDeletethis is a tough thing to acknowledge...I put Maddie in this this test group...to help with the passing of this test...at time I was scared...the doctors sold it to me as helping others...that prevention of early diagnosis....today I feel much different about the test...I do not see Maddie as a burden but a gift...I do not see Maddie as a possession but a child...my child that is perfect for our family...great posts! smiles
ReplyDeleteYour family is beautiful, I just blog hopped over here fr Austria :)
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I just don't think this test is going to do any good...All that will happen is an even higher abortion rate for children with Ds when it's already at what 93%?!
ReplyDeleteWhat ever happened to Mothers loving their children unconditionally?
And all the commenters who said we live in a harsh and cruel society are the very one who make it so by being so ignorant!
I agree!! Coming over from the Blog Hop :)
ReplyDeleteMy biggest fear with test is like you said, who goes next? Will we eventually get to the point where parents have custom made children and if one little thing is just how those parents wanted it the baby has to die. Makes me sick to my stomach! Great post!
ReplyDeleteYep its an evil test! I hadn't read the comments but they don't surprise me. your post sounds an awful lot like mine..no sugar coating. Abortion is sick and wrong and so is the test..very scary. On a lighter note can I just say your son is ADORABLE!
ReplyDeleteThose comments are heartbreaking. I think people say those things, like they will suffer in life, so they don't feel guilty about aborting a baby with Ds. Then they feel like they are doing the right thing. But the truth is they have no idea what they are talking about. They come from a place of ignorance. How can they talk the talk before they've walked the walk? I don't get it.
ReplyDeleteBTW, love that pic of Russell!
I had a similarly nauseating experience when I read the comments on Amy Julia Becker's post on the NY Times' Motherlode last fall. It was stunning to see all of the horrible things that people said. Even worse - a friend of a friend of my husband's said all of those same things (and more) directly to my husband's face at a social event a few months ago. My husband showed amazing restraint and chose to leave, rather than deck the guy.
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I agree with what you have said ... this really isn't a pro-life versus pro-choice. It simply is a matter of eugenics. :( I would have thought we, as a society, would be far beyond this by now.
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Thanks for writing this post. I agree with you, this test is just wrong! I've been thinking I want to write about this also, but I'm so angry and sad about it that I don't know where to start. I might just link to a few of you wonderful bloggers to show what others think on my blog...if you don't mind.
ReplyDeleteI found you through blog hopping...so glad I did. I look forward to following you.
blog hopped over. I too was born with clubbed feet, it was a strain on my young parents, plus my vision wasnt perfect either. I am thankful that I wasnt aborted, I have value. I was created with a purpose. I have seen the crazy eyed looks we get, especially when others learn we adopted our daughter. Every child deserves a family. Love can make a difference. No matter how long or short our life may be, abilities, or status.....
ReplyDeleteBlog Hopping led me to your blog!! And I agree "It's just sad"!!!
ReplyDeleteAMEN!!! Beautifully written!!!
ReplyDeleteIt is sad. i pray as of what to do. I think we are fighting ignorance yet ignorance is what is being seen in the media. WE need to take over, the internet, the news, whenever and whatever we can.
ReplyDeleteI'm contacting OB's in the area and providing materials and counseling services as needed. I want parents to have the correct info not that which is decided appropriate by some MD office.
Hi, coming over from the blog hop! Wow, I just posted on this very subject last night about the new test. It makes me sad that it is here, but we have to continue to empower the Down syndrome community to show what life is really like from those who live it and you and others such as yourself are helping to get the word out that our children are precious and very valuable to this human race. Thank you for sharing. Your family is beautiful and I look forward to reading your story!
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ReplyDeleteGreat thoughts on a tough thing to think about. I have read dozens of those comments, and it's hard to believe people think like that.
Thank goodness that we were blessed with our little lights to shine in this world! May others see how precious ALL life is!
I hear ya, I am not ready to see this come around. Evil :(
ReplyDeleteBlog hopping by, and I SO agree about this test. UGH. The test makes me sick, the comments make me sick. Our kids are beautiful and hopefully we can educate others on what it REALLY means to raise a child with Ds.
ReplyDeleteOh my, those comments just disgust me. I worry too that more babies with Ds will be aborted because of this test. I pray that all of our blogs shine brightly and encourage those moms that receive a positive test result from this test. I hope that they can believe that a positive test result is actually positive news!
ReplyDeleteI recently received the results from my Materni21 test; and our precious son has Downs Syndrome. I agree that this test will only increase the number of abortions and then our son will have fewer companions in life like himself. I cry for all the children that will not get to experience life.
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